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This year was not very different from 2007.

Vladimir’s life followed the academic year. 2008 was a good year for students (it’s like a good year for wine). The students were clever, inquisitive and sociable and Vladimir enjoyed working with them.
They discussed a number of hot topics: Islam, homophobia, sexuality in general. The speaker on Islam was a British student who actually lived in the
Middle East. She demonstrated her black gown she had to wear outdoors in those countries. Vladimir could not resist trying it, see here. However he did not like to be that well covered.

Vladimir’s bishop came to see what was going on. He found the students foraging on some special treats from Palermo (no, there is no connection with the Mafia, trust me). The Bishop pointed to a certain issue though the students were not quite sure what it was... another piece of cake?

The most important event of the year was the spring. The Great Windsor Park was actually designed for spring viewing. The development of the park started in 1947, the year Vladimir was born. Obviously the idea was to have the park ready by the time we settled in the area. Every year Vladimir invites students to enjoy its spring beauty. He reminds them that “think of the flowers” is a commandment of Jesus’.

2008 was the year when Vladimir established good relations with the local synagogue. He went with the students for a talk about wine. What kind of wine did the people drink around the beginning of the Common Era? There was a chance to taste it. Apart from wine proper the drink contained goat cheese, chalk, honey, sea salt and a lot of other things. It was very thick but not unpleasant. Then the students were shown around the synagogue. In the autumn the students were invited again, this time for the feast of Sukkoth. Some Muslim students joined in too. Just as Vladimir used to attend their events.

After the spring term was over the time came for us to go again to Morro Jable at the Canaries. The question is why we keep going to the same place every year. The reason is Vladimir’s wrist watch with the solar battery. That watch needs one thing only: sunlight. Needless to say we don’t have much of it in England. Going to the Canaries therefore is not luxury. It is the imperative of saving the planet from the disposable batteries. This noble task was not entirely risk-free. Vladimir overdid the snow dispenser in the sauna and believed his right foot was frostbitten. It took some time before he stopped complaining. Tamara, however, enjoyed the holiday in the simplicity of heart. Her watch did not have a solar battery.

In July Vladimir went for a Qi Gong retreat. It was a kind of yoga, movements and meditation in a group under the guidance of a Chinese master. An important part of the retreat was meditation on the pieces of calligraphy made by the master. And the sea of good green tea, litres of it every day. The retreat was arranged in a lovely place, Henley-on-Thames. It proved very beneficial to Vladimir who became five years younger. Or so he said. He now exercises once a week with Sylvia, our friend who is a Master herself.

The interest shown by the students to the issues of sexuality led Vladimir to give a course Religions and Sexuality. There was also something he wanted to understand himself in the process of working at the course. Some religions control sexuality by controlling women. Sexual repression turns therefore into the oppression of women. How universal is it? Sadly it appeared to be true for all major religions in the traditional societies. Only the secular Western society has been able to achieve - to some extent! - the double-faced ideal of free thought and free woman. If anybody is interested Vladimir can send the handouts of the course.

It did not go without a controversy. As usual Vladimir made a poster for the course. It was a quotation from a Check artist called Iri Sliva. That poster was banned because the artist looked like a Muslim (I know, I know) and Muslims could be upset about it. Vladimir made a new version with nobody to be upset. That was even worse received and banned again. Vladimir could see with his own eyes how some – young! - women blushed just looking at it. This is England, the dwelling of prudes, remember? “Just wait”, Vladimir thought and produced yet another poster. That was accepted without problem. Nobody knew what it was. One open-minded woman suggested it was a sex aid. No, it was linga-yoni, the sacred symbol of Sivaism presenting the unity of male and female elements. The rest is left to your imagination (you have to be over 18, by the way). Vladimir had the time of his life spreading those posters.

Tamara spent this year establishing herself as counsellor. She is but one step away from full membership in the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy. She also gives much time to meditation. In summer she went to Munich for a week to see a friend. Sadly she forgot to take the camera. Munich got a very special place in our hearts after the cult film Die Zweite Heimat set there.

Tamara is reluctant to tell more about her but she seems to be happy.

Our cat Boosa was even more reluctant to speak. She indicated unambiguously “No interviews”.

2008 was a good year for exhibitions. Rothko was without competition. A huge space given to his Seagram Murals was like a cathedral of sorts. It leaves only one desire: to stay at that hall indefinitely. The large size of the pictures is very important, they create a kind of environment surrounding the viewer and changing as he passes by just like a natural landscape. Although Tate has a number of significant works by Rothko we had never seen before his “black” paintings. They seem totally black first but after a while one begins detecting the vibrations of colour and some mysterious life hidden in the painting. What you see is vague and uncertain just like what comes in a deep meditation.

The so called “Russian” exhibition was rather poor but there was a personal element in it. There were French paintings, from Manet to Picasso, which we grew up with in Moscow. How many hours we spent in Pushkin’s museum absorbing their beauty and energy. Now, after more than 20 years, we could see them again. It was a short circuit with the past. Vladimir almost fainted. The English public was disappointing though. The crowd stayed in the introductory hall enjoying Repin and Nesterov. There were hardly any people by the masterpieces of Petrov-Vodkin or Kandinsky let alone Tatlin or Malevich.

The exhibition of yet another Russian, Alexander Rodchenko, was impressive. It was the full retrospective of his work. Vladimir always liked the art of the 1920s, that great period of creativity and change. Creativity, self-confidence and boldness: is it not what we lack now when we need it most?

This cheerful note brings our missive to an end.

Blessings and best wishes from both of us for the new year 2009.




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This year began as usual with Vladimir's birthday. He turned 60! The expectations were high: in Japan five twelve year cycles are considered as the full cycle bringing maturity. He had been waiting for the advent of that maturity all year. Has it arrived? Judge for yourselves.

The birthday itself was a subject of a heated debate.
Vladimir said he would rather spend the whole day alone in grief. The alternative suggested to him was to spend it in frolicking and innocent merrymaking. The compromise was reached only after long and painful deliberations. In the process of interrogations Vladimir disclosed the secret he had been keeping for sixty years. His favourite dish appeared to be goulash! A table in Gay Hussar, the best Hungarian restaurant in the city, was booked. On Vladimir's birthday, after a glass of champagne, the best goulash in London was served with the exquisite Hungarian wine. Vladimir took a picture of Tamara and Simon at that restaurant, see it here. Sketches on the walls depict the British politicians who frequent the place.

Goulash was eaten and appreciated and we returned to our ordinary life. Tamara was trying to establish her practice and designed her website which proved to be very appealing and is now bringing her clients. Tamara called it From Maze to Amazement so alluding to the amazement at human worth and dignity. Have a look at that site 
here, maybe you would like to come and receive some counselling and to get you out of your maze.

In February
a new Anglican colleague was introduced to Vladimir. It was Reverend Sally Rogers (here). On that picture Sally has confetti in her hair because the picture was taken right after the ceremony of her civil partnership.

Vladimir organised three major events over the spring term. Basically he did it because he liked to design the posters. The Founders of Religions cycle consisted of three talks: on Jesus, Mohammed and Nanak. See the poster here. The talk about Jesus was given by Sally. Vladimir's part was to choose the visual material. He selected the fragments from the three films: Jesus of Nazareth by Franco Zeffirelli, The Gospel according to Matthew by Pier Pasolini, and finally Pilate's aria from Jesus Christ Superstar. Needless to say he loved it.

Another poster
Vladimir designed was for the panel discussion What is Sex for?  The poster became the object of some hidden struggle. As soon as the Catholic students spread the posters over the campus some other students immediately removed them. Who were those students? Vladimir hopes they were poster collectors who simply loved his poster. The alternative theory blames religious fundamentalists. You can make your own mind: see the poster here.

The attendance was great anyway. Three men made a protest by leaving noisily in the middle of the presentation. The rest stayed talking after the end and did not want to go home. In the end the building was locked by the timer and they had to escape through the fire exit. It was all hugely enjoyable.

The Feminine Spirit presentation was a success again, have a look at the
poster. The samples of the feminine spirituality were quite radical this time. Listen to that (Akka Mahadevi, 12 c., India):

I love the Beautiful One
with no bond, nor fear,
no clan, no land, no landmarks
for his beauty.
So my lord, white as jasmine, is my husband.
Take these husbands
who die, decay,
and feed them
to your kitchen fires!

Tamara was concentrating on her driving and was trying to establish herself as a counsellor. She was still exhausted after years of her very demanding training. And yet every morning she spent (still does) few hours doing spiritual reading and meditation. There is someone who always helps her to do that, have a look here!

The term was over and the time came for our annual holiday which we try to take in the second half of April. Maybe it is age, maybe something else but we decided to go again to the same place: the Southern tip of the island of Fuerteventura (you can consult our previous letter from 2006). We found everything just as we had left it, even the faces were the same. This time we usually went for a swim to Morro Jable, a small village with two streets. We spent there two weeks doing nothing but walking, bathing, eating and drinking. Sauna, of course, but we did not take pictures there.

After the break we looked more like human beings. Tamara spent some time in our small garden. She certainly has her way with the plants. Vladimir likes peonies and that was the favourite flower of his (late) mother too. Tamara had her success with them after several disappointing years, have a look at this beauty! It's not for nothing that this sort is called Bowl of Beauty. Roses were another achievement of 2007, see them here. And of course we enjoyed the wild strawberries which feel so happy in Tamara's care!

Vladimir's students were busy with their exams all May but then came the time of BBQs, walks and so on. Vladimir was invited to four parties: two BBQs with the Catholic students, one BBQ with the Muslims and yet another party with The Freedom Society (GLBT).

In the end of May for the first time in his life Vladimir was invited for a dance to the Student Union. He had never done it before and the students were eager to see how he would like it. In their minds it was probably closest to the loss of virginity. This picture was taken right before the moment X. You can feel Vladimir's anxiety. By the entrance the students had to vouch for him. His details were taken by security in case he misbehaved. Then his hand was stamped by the ink visible only in the ultraviolet light.

Next thing he remembered were four loudspeakers suspended from the ceiling, each the size of a large wardrobe. The sound was massaging his rib cage. He saw the youngsters moving in tact with the music. The security guards were placed strategically all over the hall, on balconies and on special bridges. It reminded him a prison courtyard. However the ambiance was relaxing rather than threatening. Maybe because the night was very young, it was just a bit after twelve. After an hour or so he felt his rib cage could not take any more sound waves and asked the permission to withdraw which was granted on the ground of his advanced age. His ears were ringing for some time after that night.

The summer term came to an end. It was the time of sadness as many had to leave the College for good.  That picture was taken after the last Mass of the academic year. Some students Vladimir had known for years got married and he was happy to be part of it, have a look here.

The students were gone and then came the car. We chose it so that it may fit our cat in its appearance. Our cat is British Blue and the car is blue too. The car also has a short nose, the same as our cat has. Tamara has only a provisional licence but the chance to get the regular licence is very good. You can see her here driving this morning. Vladimir little by little is getting used to the way people drive in this country (UK).

So in the end what was so good about 2007? We met many good people and had our dear old friends visiting: you may even recognise some of them, how about this one... that one... and this nice crowd.

We also had a very beautiful autumn in our Park. Just have a look at this picture, another one, and the last one.

And of course London: you can never have too much of it. In fact quite a few countries have no reason to exist if not for their capital cities. Indeed, those cities should have some environs for recreation and for growing fresh vegetables. London has this unique combination of thriving energy and a laid-back attitude, sophistication and roughness, antiquity and youthfulness. And if someone asked why London? the major single reason would be: art exhibitions.

There were three memorable exhibitions this year.

Dali and Film gave a fantastic opportunity to appreciate Dali's work in film in the context of his paintings, including the iconic melting watches of The Persistence of Memory. It also included his classic films L'Age d'or and Un Chien andalou, made with Luis Bunuel and featuring the image of an eye being cut by a razor. There were six mini-cinemas showing his most revered films.
Have a look here.

Seduced in the Barbican explored the representation of human sexuality in art through 2000 years of history. There are Roman sculptures, Indian manuscripts, Japanese prints, Chinese watercolours, Renaissance and Baroque paintings (Rembrandt!) as well as Picasso, Francis Bacon, Klimt, Schiele, and Andy Warhol among many others.
Have a look here.

Finally, THE exhibition of the year, Louise Bourgeois. She keeps a special place in Vladimir's heart after he saw her sculpture at the opening of Tate Modern. Have a look at this spider commissioned by Tate. It's called Maman, Mother. Do have a look. In fact she made several spiders like this one. "Both predator and protector, a sinister threat and an industrious repairer, the spider is an eloquent representation of the mother. The spinning and weaving of the spider’s web links to Bourgeois’s own mother, who worked in the family’s tapestry restoration business. It also links to the artist’s most recent sculptures, made from scraps of fabric stitched together." Maybe she is the last genuine artist left expressing her femininity, sexuality and isolation. Find more here.

Louise Bourgeois wrote: Art is a guaranty of sanity. There is very little to be said after that and this newsletter is to be finished now. Let us just have another look at London

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Tamara & Vladimir in 2006

  • 23rd Dec, 2006 at 4:56 PM



News in brief:

- Tamara got her Diploma in counselling (psychotherapy)
- Vladimir's book was published and he was on TV
- They went places together

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2006 was a demanding year indeed.
Tamara was busy meeting her deadlines in her final year at her counselling course. She had also to do an awful lot of hours as a trainee. She was incommunicado most of the year.
For me the year began with an important event I organized at the College: Fred Halliday's
lecture Religions and Politics in the 21st century. He is a world guru on geopolitics with a special expertise in the Islamic world. The lecture theatre was packed and the Head of the Politics department said the it was the best lecture on politics ever given at our College. Fred Halliday also appeared to be a very modest and unassuming man, pleasant to talk to. Here you can see us at dinner: obviously Fred and I have different calibre.
Then came my birthday which I celebrated with the students.
Here you can see me with Becky Hays, the President of CathSoc, she also had her birthday almost on the same day. Later in the year I was at her wedding.
I continued to teach my course Religions and Conflicts (click here for the poster and here if you want to see the handouts). I had wonderful students in the class: have a look at them here and judge for yourselves.

At that time Tamara was writing her dissertation and was seeing her clients, mostly the victims of social exclusion and poor upbringing. It was rewarding but very tiring. She did not want to be photographed.
I still had to organize two major events before the end of term. In mid-March we had a panel discussion: Do religions divide us rather than unite? (See the poster here!) I had to deliver two bishops, an imam and a rabbi. I slightly overdid it and on the day TWO rabbies and TWO imams turned up. It was just as well because one of the rabbies was female, the only one on the panel, well, the only possible one if one goes for bishops and imams. The lecture theatre was so packed that in the middle of the discussion some elderly people started showing signs of dehydration. I had to send a couple of student to buy some water in small bottles and they distributed it in a rather dramatic fashion.
At the very end of the spring term we had an Interfaith lunch hosted by the Catholic students. An Italian student volunteered to cook a five dishes vegetarian lunch, pastas and pizzas and other wonderful things. No doubt his cooking was highly appreciated as it is easy to see here. We had a nice cosmopolitan crowd, see here for yourselves. It was heart-warming indeed. A DVD was made to inspire the next generations and then the students were gone for the Easter break.
However there was still one important task to complete. A dear friend of mine got married and I had the honour to preside at her wedding flanked by the Royal Anglican chaplain to the Royal Windsor Park (she worked at the territory of the Park). It was emotional for all of us. You can see me here welcoming the bride and the newly wed are shown here.
Tamara by that time had finished all her coursework and we could crawl away for some rest.
We had a long-standing dream to spend some time in Jandia (Morro Jable), at the Southern tip of the island of Fuerteventura. The dream was mainly about taking long walks along the beach that spreads for 20-30 km. I was trying to bring myself into proper shape taking daily brisk walks in our (Windsor) park. Just before we were to leave I discovered that my right foot is swollen and aching. I could hardly make it to the airport. In Jandia we went to the local hospital and a young doctor prescribed me a crutch (I still keep the prescription). Needles to say I never took the advise and treated my condition by going to bed four times a day.
Fortunately the hotel (called Faro, i.e. Lighthouse) was very close to the beach, you can see it here. Our time in Jandia was very middle class: doing nothing but sleeping, swimming, relaxing in the sauna and eating. The exploration of the evening menu began right after breakfast, those who ever read Gogol might find good parallels with his characters. Here Tamara is shown thoroughly researching that menu: some agonizing choices are to be made. The tourists were mainly German which could explain the good standard of both the food and the rooms. The British might be scared away by the reviews in which they were warned of the “naked Germans” (the nudists that is).
Anyway, my foot was getting better, we went for a round trip over the island and I met someone who advised me to work less and to rest more. He became my Master. He was obviously speaking from experience: you can see my Teacher of Wisdom here. We both took his advice and made a resolution: see the evidence here.
In Jandia we had two reasons to celebrate: my silver jubilee, 25 years a priest, and our wedding anniversary, 36 years together. My wonderful Tamara was my only guest on that evening which was again very much petit bourgeois and culminated in drinking a bottle of good wine (Tamara has considerable competence in wines!). We were happy nevertheless, see for yourselves here. Though I could not forget for a second our long journey in the Arctics last year and hotels we stayed, like this one here.
Things seemed somewhat brighter when we came back. I had to prepare my book for publication (will tell more about it, be patient) and Tamara had some paperwork to do. Because of the newly acquired wisdom imported from my new life-coach from Jandia I went for a week to Rome to visit some very dear friends, look at them here, are they not lovely? The temperature was over 40 C, I could judge even without a thermometer, see here. I went out in the morning and after dusk and was hiding for the rest of the day.
Still, Rome was inspiring as ever. There is some innate elegance in that city, even dirt turns into patina there. I stood for a while at the place where Giordano Bruno was burned and took
pictures to show the students in my course Religions and Conflicts. To be completely honest, I must say I did feel guilty to be alive. Actually, when I was in prison the KGB man told me that in 1937 I would have been shot. Must be survivor guilt. Need counselling probably (who doesn’t?) Maybe it is because I am Catholic... Tell me.
In July we had a great solemnity: Tamara got her diploma. You can see here how happy she was (and so was I). Her tutor shown on the photo is an extraordinarily spiritual person. In fact the whole course was extraordinary, as far as I can judge. Apart from the main subject of her students’ personal development and counselling skills, they learned a lot about meditation, astrology, Sufism, Taoism, etc. I wish I could go to such a course…
I do not know if you are aware that we are actually neighbours to Her Majesty Elizabeth II, the reigning Queen of Britain. She lives on one side of the Great Windsor Park and we live on the opposite side (not that we are in a sort of opposition, no…). The fact is, Windsor Castle is at a walking distance and once a year a walk to Windsor is taken. So we did one nice day in September. The park was full of deer. The Duke of Edinburgh (the Queen’s husband) must be shooting them sometimes, he is the ranger of the Park. My favourite spot in the park is the water lilies pond. I am weak for water lilies. They make me feel ashamed of my imperfection.
In Windsor Park time stops and one can see a kind of hernia from the past. That day it was a competition of the coach teams, have a look here.
Then things began happening again. They always happen to me. Of course we had a member of the House of Lords for the Chaplaincy talk: The Baroness Uddin (her photograph is here).
Then another high profile evening which was very well attended and received: The Feminine Spirit concert / meditation (see the poster here). The team of female students read poems from five different spiritual traditions: Hebrew, Christian, Islamic, Sikh, secular. They were all about the link between femininity and spirituality. Charismatic and learned Rosie Wyles presented the whole thing in a nice and inspiring way.
I was so happy, did not think I could be happier but then my
book arrived. My brain-child came out of the womb of Edwin Mellen Press, have a look at their flattering webpage here. Be warned, the book costs £80! Good value for money though, I should say. Pity they give the book a rather silly title (the marketing department did).
Also, television! The cradle of celebrities! A crew from Channel 4 came to interview me about my life under communism. It appeared I got few words in a documentary about atheism. Few minutes only but I had the last word. You can watch The Trouble with Atheism part one and part two on youtube.com. Mind you, I appear in the very end of the second part if only to bring a silly debate to an end.
And that is how the year came to its partying finale (we had a party too, chaplains and counsellors: look here).
And now about the exhibitions of the year. The major single reason for living in England is of course London (some would say it is the only reason). And London is nothing without its art exhibitions. 2006 was an unforgettable year with several major exhibitions. First, Modernism: Designing a New World, the next exhibition in a line that began a few years ago with the Art Nouveau exhibition. I had the feeling of going over a bridge to the 1920s, one of my favourite periods. The creative energy is so powerful, you can almost sense it physically.
Then of course, Modigliani and his Models. I have never seen so representative and extensive display of his works. There is something magical in his ability to add three commas and dots to a doll he painted and bring her to life surpassing life in flesh. I went three times.
How could I not mention a massive exhibition of Kandinsky? I am already nostalgic. I wish I could come and stay by his paintings now and then. It is painful to see something else living at those rooms. Feeling of loss. One year I taught Christian Spirituality and tried to initiate them to Kandinsky. They first kept on saying things like my cat can paint like that but little by little some converted and even gave me a Kandinsky calendar for Christmas. I simply played them some music and asked them to paint it. That gave them the clue. What a giant.
Not everybody likes Joseph Beuys but I do. He is a very profound thinker and has a great deal of compassion and commitment (uncommon in the port-modern world). His exhibition represented all his major works (some belong to the Tate anyway).
Lately I came across two Swiss artists, Fischli and Weiss. I know nobody who could deal as powerfully with the theme of change, instability, flux. Do have a look at a piece of their film I could not stop watching at the Gallery, was sitting there maybe for half an hour.
My story will not be complete without Boosa: she had a wonderful year. She had her 7th birthday (8th November, please write it down, even professors do send her cards!) She did not take any notice of it, at least she did not show any excitement. A humble beast, the example for all of us. She actually likes to be among the flowers: see here. I told her about my mentor’s advice and she approved it. The fact is cats never worked or fought for humans: it is humans who worked and fought for their cats. Are they not clever?
That comes with our best wishes for the new year 2007 -
Vladimir
and Tamara

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